Mystery & Universe

 Universe works in mysterious ways. Most of the time if we observe it well, we can see the patterns. Every situation has some learnings from it. So when I wanted to study psychology Universe conducted me a test.  I developed self worth, self esteem to some extend and Universe sent me a narcissist person to test it. Every human being has some percentage of narcissism. If it is less than 35 %, then good. Above 80 % means its dangerous to others. The person I met will be having above 90%

First I thought its superiority complex as there was so much self praise. I didnt mind it. Then same self praise in few hours(now it was boring). 

Then comes the manipulation. How that person is twisting the events and attack other people's emotions. It happens automatically in few seconds, so that person had lot of experience in it.

Job nature was clerical, but since a narcissist will be living in am imaginary level, the behaviour was like a CEO. lol...

Controlling nature - Only slaves are allowed in narcissist world.

They dont have empathy. They cant understand or recognize other's emotion. 

So how will you handle this? That was the test. Though the event was initiated by the narcissist, I wrote the ending clearly. I just took control and treated the narcissist as a kid directing to do this, do that etc... lol

I just made sure it will make look like a villian.

Reduced the communication, proved that I am not a people pleaser, I am not nice, can be rude when it required.

I love to watch ghost movies.  I love it when it has part 2 part 3 etc...

But I dont want narcissist part 1 part 2 etc.... It was scary actually ... hahaha... Though I acted with courage...

But I learned one thing. Self love should be strong to beat and escape from a narcissist.

And I said to the Universe, I have passed in the test. I didnt hesitate to take charge of a narcissistic person.

When you encounter such people understand it is a test by Universe, develop your self esteem, and expand your friends circle, find a support group. Thats what I did.

  

Narcissist...

 Met a different personality recently and got scared. lol. Scared is because of the manipulation done by that person. Started to collect information and finally understood that person is a narcissist. So now learning about how to handle a narcissist. 

As of now I am following " be silent, no action, reaction, no communication" ...

Next ?!

 Sometimes in life we get clarity about the upcoming test from our fellow human beings. Its aways tougher than the previous one.

Will it be a govt employee with less work in office and time pass with doing politics among the colleagues?

Lol

Yes, I am getting ready!!!

How can I describe that person? Control freak in a single word.

Life's test...

 Life test us in unexpected time. Most of the time we wont have time to plan the ways to handle it. Decide and act in few seconds type of things will happen. But if you pass these tests with flying colors, it means you have gained maturity and it improves your confidence.

I handled such consecutive things in life recently. I always give benefit of doubt to the other person. If they fail, then it is like a chess game. My move will be different and unexpected. Opponents wont even realize they are trapped.

When you think a person is not good or harm you, dont try to please them. Most people think  tyrant type of people are superior and try to please them, try to get good name from them which will never happen. Bad people are bad because its their nature. They will behave in the same cruel way with everybody especially towards the people who are soft.

I  made my tyrant aunt as comedy aunt in few moves. I didnt feel victory or superior. I just got opportunity to test my skill sets. lol.  Thats all. And I move on. I am grateful to the Universe  for giving such opportunities and it made me believe about myself. My heart is filled with gratitude. 

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