Ghostly whispers...

 This will be a funny post, I guess.  I joined a small webinar about getting connected with a spirit guide. I was eager about it. But that webinar turned out to be for empaths and super empaths. lol.

Every empath's sensory organs will be sharp. When they guided us through meditation, it was good. I slept mostly in meditation. 😹 and other participants were saying they felt warm, chillness, etc., etc. Our bodies will feel the air in different ways. So I don't think that's abnormal.

Most of the time, we expect something, but what we get will be different.

This time, I felt like I was with a group of empaths, super empaths who don't know about themself. lol

Chocolate brownie...

 We are continuing from "Owners' Pride, Neighbors' Envy ".  Actually, it was fun. When I started losing weight, one of my neighbors joined a weight loss clinic and also tried to lose weight. Mostly in those clinics, they will make people starve, make them follow 16-hour window intermittent fasting, and ask them to have Ash guard, winter melon juice. For a few, it will give an allergic reaction, as a cold. 

There will be weight loss by following the methods prescribed by them, and when you stop, the weight starts to gain. Especially in the tummy area, gain will be visible.

So that neighbor wanted to mess with my diet. She asked me to accompany her for window shopping at night, and we had a heavy dinner with a chocolate brownie. I was always taught from childhood that I should not waste food. But my diet stomach did not mind it, so I left the food incomplete and had as per my tummy capacity allowed.

The next day, she planned to go to a movie with me, but I declined.  Popcorn, snacks, and coffee during the movie will mess up my diet.

The moral is to take everything in moderate amounts(especially food). lol...

Don't try to lose 5 to 10 kg in a month. That will backfire. Instead, reduce by 2 to 3 kg in a month, and it will be steady and slow, won't backfire that much.

2 days after this happened, the neighbor was saying, "See, you did not take diet food that day. Don't continue the diet.. You have lost enough weight".  

I just smiled. Did not say anything. It's not worth a reply.

Some people demotivate like this because of jealousy, but we can ignore it as we are not responsible for other people's thought and actions.

Problem Solving...

 People solve problems in many ways. Break it into small parts and solve it, write it down on paper, draw a flow chart, and discuss it with friends. My problems are mostly big, and finding a solution is tough. So I let the problems run in  the background (subconscious mind). It may take a few days or months. And I will collect details. Like a puzzle, it will find a solution once the final piece fits in.

And Viola, that's the unique solution.

Weight loss is that type of problem, and I solved it. There are so many myths about weight loss. No oil, no sugar, no milk, no wheat, Oh My God. I did not do any such sacrifices. 

Reached halfway in my weight loss journey, and by this year's end, it's a new Me.  

Owner's pride, neighbor's envy... lol

I upgrade faster...

 New learning today. When a narcissist tries to make you their victim, and you are escaping from them, what will they do? They go through your old messages, find your interested areas and approach you accordingly. A situation that happened a few months before won't be valid now. But they never know. lol.

From a narcissist's point of view, they are looking for genuine ways to connect with you. I was confused by this type of approach a few months back.  I was unable to decide whether that person is good or bad. I always approach wiser people and understand the narcissist's intention. 

But this time, without hesitation, I expressed I can not accept their suggestion.

I will be a puzzle to that person. But I am the one who modified the puzzle, and you are drawn to it. I wont say the dialogue like, "hunter becomes the hunted"... lol. That's too dramatic. But I won't hesitate to strike anybody down when they cross their limit. 

I am Devilish Angel, integrating my powerful devilish part to protect the angel.

I am the Devilish Angel, the narcissist slayer.

Empath types...

 We have internet/ We can get any information from it. That's what I thought. But when I started to read about empaths, I had these doubts. There are 10 different types of empath. What if an Empath has all the characteristics?

And during shadow work, what difficulties do they face?

Personal growth is a tough journey, even though we have the internet. Lol.

Let the growth unfold on its own, though it takes time. 

Life after death...

 After hearing one neuroscientist's interview mentioning this series, I started to watch this series, "Life After Death" on Netflix. People who nearly died or whose hearts stopped for a few minutes talked about their experience during that time. Everybody was saying that the place was nice, gave comfort, etc, etc. Hearing it can make people want to have a temporary death. lol.

But the truth is, people whose time did not come only returned to their bodies and were giving interviews. It's like they are waiting in an emergency room. Their experience will be entirely different from the experience of the people who died.

Human beings can not understand the life after death experience unless a person remembers their death, after after-death experience, and reincarnation. That means they will be at a higher level in the human hierarchy.

Secrets will never be spilled, as after death, experience will differ as per their karma.

Only the soul retrievers can know everything!!!

The daughter she never had...

 Trying to write stories based on real incidents. 

Once upon a time there lived an Empath. She is very calm, sensitive, introvert and not an attention seeker. Her neighbor is a very old lady. Things were normal and suddenly the old lady started to spread rumors about the girl. The girl was upset, she was thinking why that old lady did that when she did not do her any harm.

One night when Empath was sleeping, she had a dream. In that dream she was the old lady. That lady when she was young had few mis carriages and suffered a lot. Empath felt her pain, the sadness, the screams, the tears. Empath lived the life of the old lady in her dream. Now the empath understood, whenever the old lady is seeing her, it reminds her of the mis carriages.

Immature empath should have  showed more compassion towards the lady. But the matures empath knows, the old lady will project her pain on the empath. The girl set clear boundaries with the old lady. And the old lady understood she can not manipulate the girl.

You may be thinking why the Universe made the girl live that old lady's painful life in her dream. It is because if the girl understood the intensity of the pain, then only she will realize protecting herself is the first duty.

Compassion towards others is good. But showing compassion to the people who hurt you is wrong.

Food with love...

 Nowadays cooking has become a tedious work. And the interest for cooking is reducing. People like to get food from outside. Food is the basic need for human and I wonder why people want to depend on somebody for it!!! 

Since I am not from Rockefellar family, I  cook whenever I have time and give priority to it. And it helps me in the weight loss journey as I have to cook healthy food.

When you are in diet, treat your energy as currency. To reduce weight, we have to take less calorie food and in less quantity. I dont get mood swings because of diet as I manage my limited energy level. If you are stressed, weight wont reduce. Journaling helps me to reduce stress.

Cooking is a self care routine. And my interest in cooking increased when I realized its a form of self love. Who can cook food for you with love other than you?