Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Design your destiny...


Everybody face life changing situation atleast once in their life time.It may happen when a person faces near to death  situation emotionally or physically. If that person decide to change completely, starting from zero then it is a rebirth to her/him. 
It is not easy. It is the most painful thing in the world. Our DNA, environment, assosiates, decision making capacity, thinking ability decides who we are. And reprogramming it needs strong desire, motivation and will power. It needs self observation and involves facing uncomfortable truths about ourselves. 

One should change the patterns in their life, their responses to familiar situation, their automatic reactions and their emotions. One should change their friends with whom they normally associative with, because with same friends same pattern will repeat. It is a selfish thing to do, but rebirth needs complete pattern break. It is a lengthy process but the reward has its worth. 

Most people go with life as it is because change is not easy and and the person has to be committed to make the change. Change/rebirth is completely your choice. With that you can design your own destiny. Are you bold enough to determine your destiny in near to death situation?


17 comments:

Jeevan said...

Like you said, it’s not an easy thing and for the dependent like me it’s impossible! Interesting thought

Destination Infinity said...

I think many of us realize the importance of change, and change, eventually. It's difficult until we realize.

Destination Infinity

Devilish Angel said...

@Jeevan : Life looks beautiful when we understand it from different perspective. So its possible for you...

@Destination infinity : Most people realize the importance of change, but only few have the courage to do it.

deeps said...

Designing destiny depends on priorities in life .. both of our blog posts are intertwined :P

Debbie said...

i am happy with my life and circumstances, i have made that choice. but i also realize that nothing changes if nothing changes, for those who are unhappy and need change!!

eileeninmd said...

Hello, some changes are for the better. Great post, thanks for sharing. Happy Friday, enjoy your weekend!

stardust said...

Everything is constantly changing including myself. Change is inevitable. I consider myself having changed (hopefully grown) with the same core part. Once in a while, drastic change is needed. Change of jobs, house-moving, marriage can change your life with a fresh new start. Regarding people, many people are temporal passing acquaintances; few remain till our end.

Yoko

Devilish Angel said...

@deeps : Yeah :)

@Debbie : Change is the only constant thing...

@eileeninmd : Thank you. Happy weekend...

Beatrice P. Boyd said...

While I agree with what you have said that change is good and that our lives can change as life changes around us, I would have to disagree that changing friends is a good thing. Yes, there have been people in my life who have not been "good" for me in terms of emotional support and long-term friendship. But, then there are others, only a handful, with whom I have been friends for 10-25 years and these are people that have been there for me in many stressful times of my life.

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Rajesh said...

Very nicely put together.

Carol Z said...

Interesting post and lots to think about. Thanks for visiting Buttercupland. Please stop by and visit often.

Nancy Chan said...

Sometimes change is good. We change from bad to good, we change to better ourselves, etc. What you have written is interesting. I am now following you and invite you to follow back. Thank you.

Breathtaking said...

Hello!:) This is an interesting concept, but I don't think it's for everyone. I don't like change, but am adaptable to it when need be, when some changes are necessary. Of course I like a change of scene when we go on holiday, or try a new restaurant, who doesn't, but I have had the same friends for over 60 years,and they have never disappointed me. Life is beautiful just the way it is for me, but I am lucky. For those people who are not as fortunate, I would agree with you that change could enrich their lives in all kinds of ways. Thank you for your visit.:)

rainfield61 said...

Everyday is a new day.

We grow, we change.

Devilish Angel said...

@Beatrice P.Boyd : If your friends are supportive, that means you dont need "complete change"...

@Rajesh : Thank you...

@Carol : Thank you...

@Nancy Chan : Thank you...

@Breathtaking : 60 years of friendship is really great...

@rainfield61 : Yes :)

SG said...

Nothing is so painful than a sudden change in your life. I have experienced that.

Devilish Angel said...

@SG : Ofcourse...