How to train God...

 Just a different heading...

Recently, I was losing motivation to visit the temple daily. It was boring to walk the same route, going to the same place.  So I told God, since my willpower is low, don't test me by sending people to tell their sad stories during the working days. If you still send them to me, then I will show my unfiltered shadow to them. 😇

Nobody disturbed me during my temple visit.

Still, it was boring. So I asked God to give some follow-up calls. I did not get any.

I changed the technique. When I woke up in the morning I send the message from my mind to him. "I am coming there. Clear the space; I don't like any negative vibration" 

And I went to temple. I saw a person cleaning the grass inside the temple. I was surprised. Then I smiled. Since I said, clear the space, God has arranged a person in short notice to remove the weeds. lol.

The 1st thought I got is, Oh my God, now I have to train God to understand what I am saying. Then I understood. It is an expression of acknowledgement.

Since he is very mischievous, I also expressed in a similar way. I prayed by singing a love song(in mind) from a movie. lol.

This incident was very interesting, and I got motivation to visit the temple.

I will get another interesting incident when my motivation loses momentum.

The life unlived...

 It is about the Unicorn old lady. 

I saw her today, and she talked a lot. I don't want to tell her the whole truth, but wanted to say which can help her to survive.

And also there are lessons to learn from it.

I told her to forget about joining an old-age home. It won't be like a school hostel where students are young, and they won't be that bad. And you cannot return to your home if you don't like it at the old-age home. The reason for me to explain is if you live with a false hope about old age home, you won't think about how to take efforts to live peacefully at your home.

Her mind is programmed by her parents to join an old age home if things get worse at home. Even in their 70s and 80s, people behave as per their parents' wishes!!! Or, since she is a unicorn, she did not grow up fully in childhood.

Her grief is about these things...

1. She has sacrificed her life for her family and brother, but her brother does not respect her. He doesn't talk with her.

2. The whole world knows her sacrifice, but he does not!!!???

3. She has struggled a lot and did her duties like a mother to her brother.

4. He is having a good life and still sad. 

5. I have faced lot of difficulties in finding bride for him and found as per his wish.

Whatever she said was the grief that came from a person who did not live their life for themselves.

As a 3rd person, my understanding is that she is an extra fitting in her brother's home. Brother-sister relationship will become secondary when a person gets married.

When her brother is not having a steady income, she should not have arranged for marriage. That marriage spoiled the life of a woman. Now her brother's wife is earning and taking care of the family.

I can not say all these things to her and write them here. 

Human beings show their hate in subtle ways. A wife who hates her husband won't wear all the ornaments that show the world that she is married. Parents who hate their female child won't remember that child's birthday. Females who cook, when they hate their family, will cook simple food that can be digested easily, and everybody at home will stay hungry.

At this rate, Unicorn lady will understand the truth that she is a slave, and not a person who sacrificed for the family her life after 2 more birth cycles. lol.

I am planning to apply to Chithira gupta's department 😇(Chitragupta is the Hindu deity tasked with keeping complete records of human actions (Karma) on Earth.)

New religion = Old region with new approach...

 From childhood, I had a belief that if I am good and pray to God, then God will give me everything I ask. Most people have this belief. It is how their parents trained them. Also, society tries to mould a person like that.

This belief has few consequences. Giving your life's responsibility to God will make you take less responsibility towards your own life. People who have this kind of belief go to the temple, give something to God and expect something in return. 

You pray to God asking for something; God gives it along with some challenges, and you feel God has done something wrong to you.

I understood all these after a midlife change. 

Now, when I go to temple, I offer flowers to play the colour game 😇, practise respect, gratitude, contentment, and happiness through my actions.

Since I don't ask for anything, I don't get disappointed. This gives peace of mind. I love this approach. The habit I am creating by visiting the temple nowadays can make me a better person.

It does not mean that old habits won't surface in my mind. Sometimes I feel like asking, but I remind myself we are practising contentment, and a content mind won't ask anything.  After all, God know what is good for me; does he expect me to ask for it? lol, no. 

My new approach gives me peace of mind.

The transition...

 The transition period after the exit point test is crucial. The old self is no longer valid. The wisdom you gained will make a new self. The courage you earn at that point also makes you more stable.

As a super empath, the service I provided to the world changed once I became a narcissist slayer. The belief system started to upgrade automatically. The more truth I see, the wiser I became/become.

It is not easy, as there is a grief for the old self. A sadness to leave the familiarity. And also a confusion about the new self. Have you faced it in your life?

The old wounds and trauma are also not valid. lol. And they are the most familiar things to a person. Building a new self, leaving old wounds as they have already been judged, is tough, but I am doing it one step at a time. 

Take a first step, and the next step will be visible to you at the right time.

Reading this can give you more clarity. 😊

How to handle a rumor..

 I won't get any sleep if I don't write about narcissists. After all, I am a narcissist slayer, and recently I have become a dark empath slayer too. lol.

The main tactic used by a narcissist is creating a false image of you. When they do that, observe it as it will contain their insecurity. And you should find it and should show the narcissist that you know the truth. That is really fun. This strategy works all the time.

When my lovely neighbour started a rumour about my career, I used the same technique. She is putting on a scene as if she has a high-grade job, but the truth is she is working with her school qualification. I made her understand that I know the truth. 😇 

For the false data she created, I created so much real data about myself. 😇😇😇

My simple life is gone. But that is okay. I am flexible to accept changes.

This is known as using the same technique to beat your enemies. 

The weakness of a narcissist is that they don't know how to handle it when the illusions get broken. 

I won't underestimate anybody. So now the narcissist should live within the real data I create consistently throughout their life.

Which means the relationship between the narcissist and the narcissist slayer remains the same. 😇

You are judged...

 Everybody thinks that as long as we live here, we won't be judged, or we will be judged after we die. Totally wrong. Every life on this earth is judged at its exit point. For example, in college we write semester exams, and finally we write the final exam. And in each semester we will be tested on what we learned. Exit points are like that. From the previous exit point to the current one, you will be judged. All the good and bad karma we created will be judged, and the result will be given. But we won't be aware of it.

Souls don't have the right or deciding power to go or stay on this earth. The exit point and time are fixed, but the outcome is flexible. Our decisions intention in each and every action are in our control.

We are the masters of our fate when we have awareness of it.

Our life changes after the exit point, as the lessons we need to learn will be upgraded. In college, we will have classmates, but here we are on our own. lol. 

Have you read this?

Goat and the carrot...

 The basic technique family members use on other family members to control them s is promising them a good thing in the future. They use it to blackmail, cross boundaries and to control another person..

Allowing others to cross a small boundary is like giving them permission to control your life, as small boundary crossing is a test to prove their dominance and to train you.

I was planning to cook lunch. Family from another city wanted my food. I don't like to make it a habit. So I refused. And as usual, one word led to another. And finally, the controlling words came: we will look after you in your old age. And I said, so far I am the one who is looking after everybody, so this promise is just stupid.  And I don't have any plan to live with you. I added, " Don't imagine getting whatever I have after I die, as chances are there for me to outlive everybody". Hahahaha, I felt good. 

I did not cook. 

Some parents won't know parenting. And these stupid parents spoil their kids and their future. They should be friend in boiling oil in hell.

I am venting my anger. Thats all. I know there is no separate hell. lol.