Why people want to be alone?

When a person is lonely there may be lots of reasons. If the reasons are natural, like the person himself or herself has deliberately wanted to be a loner, then their perceptions and priorities of Life is different and all those people would be quite bold, very precise, know what they want and what they do not want. Nothing affects them externally and such people may not have any sentiments and will always talk and behave very practically, as a down-to-earth person. 

Now, coming to the other section of people who have become lonely due to circumstances and external factors, they all will be emotionally weak and they would always be looking for some sort of companionship to share their emotions or sentiments or problems. it do

es not mean that these kind of people will not be practical or they will not have any priorities or goals for Life. They will also be quite focussed on what they want and they will always enjoy being in a relationship with someone whom they consider to be good and genuine. If they are close to someone like this, they would feel that their confidence level is high and they will think that because of their relationship with that person, they are able to achieve lots of good things in Life and thereby their binding with that person is very strong.

Due to some reasons, if the above relationship breaks and they are forced to become a loner again, they will be very upset and perhaps they will be disturbed and disappointed. It will take sometime for them to come back to their normal and finally they will become normal and they will feel that they have gained lots of experience in Life and have learned lots of lessons too. Many times, these persons would come out of their loneliness on their own or after they find another soul mate.

LONELINESS IS TERRIBLE AND DIFFICULT TO GO THROUGH.

Infact, the Concept of IMPRISONMENT as Punishment for Criminals has emerged on the same lines, because LONELINESS is the biggest punishment that one can take and go through and that is why they are Jailed in a Cell where he or she is alone.

Instead...

When I’ll be dead

Your tears will flow…

But I won’t know

Cry for me now instead…

You will send

Flowers…

But I won’t see

Send for me now instead…

You will say words of

Praise…

But I won’t hear

Praise me now instead…

You will forget my

Faults…

But I won’t know

Forget them now instead…

You will miss me

Then…

But I won’t feel

Miss me now instead…

You will wish

You could have spent

More time with me

Spend  it now instead…

P.S : I got this beautiful sms today .

Thoughts...

The Human Mind has got two sides, one the conscious and the other the sub-conscious. The sub-conscious mind is active always even while we sleep and that is why even in deep sleep we will realise some small noises which occur around us.

The sub-conscious mind has a power and there are few people who are aware of this fact and it is these few who get intuition and as they practice it in the day to day life, they become experts to predict things out of their intuition. Various events in our life are also reflection of our sub-conscious thoughts of our mind and that is how we relate it. Many times on any particular event, we say, I knew it will happen like this only, I told you know, it will happen like this. 

This is the basis on which scholars say, always think positively and talk positively. We have to be aware always and recognise the presence of the sub-conscious mind and keep developing the art of talking to our own inner-self and this will translate itself to Intuition. Let all good thoughts, pleasant thoughts, positive thoughts, Thoughts which can satisfy our soul emerge in us and we can look forward to Better and Happy days ahead of us.

Love...

Love need not necessarily be between a boy and a girl or between a man and  woman, love is an emotion which emerge between human hearts and minds based on lots of understandings, flexible attitude, willingness to compromise. When love is between a man and woman, it is invariably out of an attraction based on physical appearance and beauty, between the two and sometimes it is also called infatuation. When the bonding becomes stronger, it crosses the stage of infatuation and firms up as love. Many times, before it could firm up as love, it breaks at the stage of Infatuation itself mainly because of the fact that the maturity in the individuals is missing. When it is really matured, the bonding is very strong.

Love has many dimensions and it is very difficult to narrate because too many points are there. It is the Essence and Nucleus for anything and everything. If it is missing in a person, everything else will be missing in him or her. If one has to be successful in a Job, person should love the Job, if one has to be successful in business, person has to love the business line he or she has chosen. If one wants to be in a nice family, the head of the family has to love the family and he or she should be a loveable person for others to follow their principles and nurture the spirit of love in the family.

Without love, there is no room for any pleasure. Pleasure without love would be machine like and it will not have any value and will not last long. Even without seeing each other for months or years together, one can always possess the love for each other in the heart and it is the thought which matters.

Life is to live...

Nothing is permanent in life. Everyday we get new thoughts, emotions, experiences. Most of us focus on problems, rather than about solving them. Solution is living in the moment. Because life can change within seconds.

It matters...

When we struggle in life, trying to create own identity, hurt, broken, disappointed, frustrated, a thoughtful gesture or a reassurance about life matters. Few comforting words or small act of kidness can make a difference in life.

My desktop - Tiny Buddha

Never be defined by your past. It is a lesson, not a life sentence.