Nobody teaches you how to handle when you mess up with a relationship. You can not expect the other person to understand you. They will understand if you give them enough time and space. Relationship involves people and you have to handle yourself and the other person. The other person may say get lost and its the time when they need you more. When you enjoyed the care and affection in a relationship, you should also learn not to leave them in problem time. Its an art to convert a messed up relationship in to a good friendship. Think yourself an artist and act accordingly.
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that's true, throughout ur life, not just with a lover or spouse, but with siblings, closest relatives and best friends...patience and more love when they tell u to get lost..yea..
there is no 'break-up' once in love
Relationships definitely are hard... My best advice (that I give to myself) all through the years is GOOD COMMUNICATION---all throughout the relationship. If communication stops---changes happen which the other person may or may not know about.. Sometimes --these changes become too drastic and cannot be reversed....
Good Luck... It's not easy to keep a good relationship going!!!! We are all unique and special individuals --and none of us are alike.
Hugs,
Betsy
nice one and interesting
thanks
So true.. but in ever changing world and persons, its sometimes difficult to understand if the person really needs you or they want you out of their life. Sadly the latter is also true, which often results in heart break.
so true though not so easy to do at times....but one must try to do his best while living into a relation.
excellent post boss..i have a friend and this happens often...hey it is a secret..
If both the involved people were frank and honest in the first place, there would be much less 'break-ups'.
Destination Infinity
Some honesty/frankness might go a long way in avoiding such things...
Nice post.
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