I was really bored of seeing this term when they describe Introverted Intuitive in you tube. If an introvert is hurt, then they will leave that person and never look back is known as door slamming. Sounds like a definition. lol.
It is not that simple. It can not be done in all situations. If you are hurt by a family member, you can not door-slam. Or if your narcissistic neighbor, who is in search of a victim, approaches you, you can not door slam. They will knock on your window if you slam the door. No window slam is possible. In other words, you can't even door mat slam. lol.
In practical life, most of the time it's not possible. Narcissist are famous for breaking your boundaries. All you can do is, find their weakness and press it lightly. They will come back to you with new plan to break your boundaries again. Find another weak point and press it for 3 seconds. Sounds like accu pressure. OMG. LOL.
Continue this process till you are tired or the narcissist is tired.
If nothing works address them directly.
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Ah, thank you so much for this! I think each and every one of us has had to deal with such a person at least once in our lives, if not, many times!
So true!
That is very true Linda. Thank you for the comment.
Yes. Thank you for the comment.
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