You can read part 1 here.
The sacrifice
The promise
Freedom
Unknown sacrifice
A person who is sacrificed in the family won't understand they are the victim. Rather, they think they are helping their family and taking care of the family. But I can see a person in the past, present and future. A human being has the ability to justify what they did. Her family should have created an illusion that she is a dull, mad person and they are doing her favour by keeping her with them. This can result in isolation from the world, reduce confidence, and she should have believed there is something wrong with her. Only God wll know her sacrifice and the world and her family should have treated her bad.
And I thought, if there is a hell, I would get a job to fry these kind of people in oil pot.
The Promise
And she said to me, in a worried tone, you should marry a good guy. I replied, saying, whatever comes, I can face it. "Ego" is what kills love between 2 people. My brother's daughter married her colleague, but got divorced because of ego. She touched my hand and said, it is very important for you to understand: you should not allow ego to come between you and your husband. The way she said it was like she was very sure of it. I can understand the urgency and seriousness in her voice. And with the same seriousness, I said I won't allow ego between me and my husband. My voice sounds like a promise.
Everybody needs a life partner. And life is meaningless without a partner, she said.
This is the strangest experience I've had recently. lol.
The freedom
All her life she is living with her brother and her brother's wife is very rude it seems. Whenever there is a fight old lady will think about going to an old-age home. Though I wanted to move out badly, it still remains as a dream she said.
Why she took time to say all these?
I can understand it. She is searching for an old-age home, and she can move out there any time. That is why she talked about all these things.
After all, she wants freedom.
Whether I will meet her again, or will meet her a few times, depends on when she joins an old-age home. Though she did not say that to me, I can predict she will do that.
Unicorns when they don't know who they are, will die thinking they are a defective human.
Her story made me upset, but I know collective consciousness will her and take care of her.
