What drives people to be the person they are? And especially a narcissist? Its nearly a year I learned narcissist behaviour.
Oh boy, that is evolutionary. I became Sherlock Holmes. lol
An empath, a people pleaser, works hard for their family or friends' love. What about a narcissist? And I got a specimen to do the research. 😇 Courtesy: Neighbour
I always get this question when I see her. What is the control her mother has over her? Why she is living with them? What made her to work in the same job without trying to get a promotion?
And the universe was kind enough to give her plenty of opportunities(made me jealous).
These questions made me to collect data to find answers. She joined in the job without completing high school and staying in the same position, rejecting the opportunities to get promotion, has some deep psychological problems.
A narcissist always expects something from others. She is spending more than her income and getting her parents' help financially. Whenever she gets the opportunity to move away from her parents, she rejects it, as she can not survive on her income, as narcissists are grandiose.
And another thing, she can not make real friends. Though she takes a photo with a smiling face with others, nobody is her friend.
And she knows it.
That is the reason why there is no way to evolve apart from her parents.
It is really funny to hear when she says that she is a social worker. She herself needs rescue. 😊
This knowledge, when used properly, can control a narcissist. That is why I am a narcissist slayer!!!
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