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Some teachers have ethics. They don't give zero marks to any students as it will make the student believe incapable in studies. I have never given zero when I taught. My shadow side wanted to give zero. Whenever I meet a narcissist, I find it thrilling to give zero to their efforts.
I don't want to have any contact with my narcissistic neighbour. Last time I told her, I could not help her. I know she will try again. Actually, she doesn't need help; it can be solved easily in other ways without depending on anybody. But to improve her narcissistic ability, she asked for help. Anyhow, she tried in a different way yesterday. She sent her father to convince me. I explained logically why I can not help. I don't accept guilt trips or any other tactics.
I really don't understand why people ask for help when it is not necessary?! It is a kind of act to make the other person submissive. If she has a problem, she has to solve it. It is not my duty to help her to solve it. Usually, she and her mom will go for a walk and talk to others. This time they did not come out. That is very strange.
Even my family members wanted to help, but I told them I stopped helping since I don't like her. So no more arguments.
It is always a pleasure giving a narcissist zero out of a hundred.
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