The life unlived...

 It is about the Unicorn old lady. 

I saw her today, and she talked a lot. I don't want to tell her the whole truth, but wanted to say which can help her to survive.

And also there are lessons to learn from it.

I told her to forget about joining an old-age home. It won't be like a school hostel where students are young, and they won't be that bad. And you cannot return to your home if you don't like it at the old-age home. The reason for me to explain is if you live with a false hope about old age home, you won't think about how to take efforts to live peacefully at your home.

Her mind is programmed by her parents to join an old age home if things get worse at home. Even in their 70s and 80s, people behave as per their parents' wishes!!! Or, since she is a unicorn, she did not grow up fully in childhood.

Her grief is about these things...

1. She has sacrificed her life for her family and brother, but her brother does not respect her. He doesn't talk with her.

2. The whole world knows her sacrifice, but he does not!!!???

3. She has struggled a lot and did her duties like a mother to her brother.

4. He is having a good life and still sad. 

5. I have faced lot of difficulties in finding bride for him and found as per his wish.

Whatever she said was the grief that came from a person who did not live their life for themselves.

As a 3rd person, my understanding is that she is an extra fitting in her brother's home. Brother-sister relationship will become secondary when a person gets married.

When her brother is not having a steady income, she should not have arranged for marriage. That marriage spoiled the life of a woman. Now her brother's wife is earning and taking care of the family.

I can not say all these things to her and write them here. 

Human beings show their hate in subtle ways. A wife who hates her husband won't wear all the ornaments that show the world that she is married. Parents who hate their female child won't remember that child's birthday. Females who cook, when they hate their family, will cook simple food that can be digested easily, and everybody at home will stay hungry.

At this rate, Unicorn lady will understand the truth that she is a slave, and not a person who sacrificed for the family her life after 2 more birth cycles. lol.

I am planning to apply to Chithira gupta's department 😇(Chitragupta is the Hindu deity tasked with keeping complete records of human actions (Karma) on Earth.)